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Teenage LOVE
Written by Polina Ivanova, 10c

  I want to start with the fact that this topic is important for absolutely every teenager. And that's teenage love. I’ll try to describe some features of this phenomenon and maybe even give some advice. I sincerely hope that this information will be useful.

We live in society. We communicate, we make friendships, we argue and of course we fall in love. Love is one of the most glorious feelings. When you are in love, you spend all your free time together, texting or phoning each other at night and making each other pleasant surprises. You have jokes that only you understand. In general, you find a best friend, maybe even something more. But unfortunately there are different problems that stop or hinder us.

The hardest to go through is unrequited love when one person loves another and is ready to do everything for their happiness, and the other does not reciprocate feeling. Also love at a distance might cause problems. When you love each other, but there are kilometers between you, you can’t influence the situation. Also, I think teenagers are very attached to the opinion of others. For example a boy loves a girl, but his friends say that she doesn’t suit him or that he hasn’t got chances. Someone in this situation will give in and will probably lose the love of all his life. And the other one will struggle for his love. There are many more examples of such difficulties in life. But do not dwell on the problems.

I believe that in order to make someone like you, you always have to be yourself. You don't have to pretend to be someone you're not. Also, teenagers often worry about their appearance and are looking for their flaws. You need to know that you are beautiful and love yourself as you are. Of course you need to take care of yourself. Wash your hair, take care of your face, have neat nails and all the rest. Doing this, you become even more attractive.

Let's move on to the relationship itself. You have to be willing to devote a lot of time to your partner, to show that you need him. Be sincere with each other. Lying always leads to problems. Tell your parents that you have a girlfriend or boyfriend. They will always be able to help you and support any of your decisions. If suddenly there is such a situation that you broke up, you just need to try to let it go. Yes, it would be hard. Somebody will even think about suicide. But people, don’t be fools!!! You are so young! Find a hobby and try to make it easier to go through this rough patch. And I am saying it again, share this with your parents, because they will always support you and give you the right advice. Do not run immediately to find a replacement for this person. You would look dreadful. And believe me, you will find your true love, everything is ahead.

Thank you for reading my composition. I hope it was useful to someone. Just want to say don't listen to anyone, live your life and always stay yourself and everything will be okay.