RELATIONSHIPS HOTLINE: Love


Illustrated by Alexandra Bobrova, 10c

RELATIONSHIPS HOTLINE: Love


Illustrated by Anhelina Dikina, 10a

RELATIONSHIPS HOTLINE: Love


The Problem of Heartbroken Boys
Written by Artur Shamyan, 10a

You are rejected by your girlfriend? She has told you she doesn't want to be with you anymore? You feel alone, unwanted, miserable, right? So, you’ve made the right decision to approach me. This is my attitude towards your issue.

I would like to give you some very useful advice, which will help you to go through the rough patch.

    • Firstly, remember, that you are not the only one, who faces this problem. Almost each man at least once ran into it. So, it is a necessary experience for you. It's an important part of your growing up. After you sort it out, you will become emotionally stronger.
    • If you are to blame, you should apologize, if it is not your fault, then follow the next advice.
    • Respect yourself! "No" means "No". Don't waste your precious time annoying her with your messages.

RELATIONSHIPS HOTLINE: Love


Teenage LOVE
Written by Polina Ivanova, 10c

  I want to start with the fact that this topic is important for absolutely every teenager. And that's teenage love. I’ll try to describe some features of this phenomenon and maybe even give some advice. I sincerely hope that this information will be useful.

We live in society. We communicate, we make friendships, we argue and of course we fall in love. Love is one of the most glorious feelings. When you are in love, you spend all your free time together, texting or phoning each other at night and making each other pleasant surprises. You have jokes that only you understand. In general, you find a best friend, maybe even something more. But unfortunately there are different problems that stop or hinder us.

RELATIONSHIPS HOTLINE: Love


HIGH SELF-ESTEEM
Written by Andrey Kihtenko, 10a

  There are many problems in relationships and their solutions. I think the most important problem is the exaggerated high self-esteem of your partner. I will try to tell about this problem on the example of a girl with too high self-esteem.

She loves to dramatize everything. Such a girl cannot live a day without hysteria. In normal and calm relationships she becomes bored. She is not interested in living like all typical lovers; she begins to look for reasons to argue about something.

She thinks she is the best. She behaves terribly with strangers or with service staff. It is one of her most striking qualities in a girl. She thinks that you must satisfy her whims. The more time passes, the worse it will become. Whims will be daily, and she will demand a lot. As a result, you have to deal with the forever unsatisfied girl and scandals. Such girls do not know the word "we". They only know the "Me".

RELATIONSHIPS HOTLINE: Love


What to Do If You Like a Girl But She Doesn’t
Written by Illa Khilko, 10c

  As we go through life, we develop a variety of relationships. One of them is the relationship of a guy with a girl. It’s good if the feelings of sympathy are mutual, but it also happens that the guy has a feeling of sympathy for the girl, but she doesn’t.

So what to do if you feel sympathy for the girl, but she does not feel any for you? In such situation, first of all, you must become her friend. It is necessary to show interest in the hobbies of the girl, even if they are not interesting to you. You should always help the girl, if she needs it. It’s worth making compliments. You need to spend time with her, for example, go for a walk, to begin with, in company with other friends. Of course, you have to take care of yourself.

RELATIONSHIPS HOTLINE: Friendship


How to Continue Trusting Friends If You Were Betrayed Once?
Written by Alex Bobrova, 11c

  All people are different. Some of us retain/preserve childish naivety and openness for the whole life, some remain wary in communication, and there can also be ones who prefer not to trust anyone. Of course, everybody wants to save their inner world and that`s right. But don`t shut yourself from everyone, especially if you have gone through betrayal. It might seem hard to learn to trust people again, but if you want to feel wanted and loved again, you must step over yourself. To begin with let`s try to understand what trust means. Trust is a positive relationship between people, that allows us to stay sure in someone`s honesty, decency, integrity and loyalty. Trust can be blind or reasonable. Reasonable trust does not occur at once, for example, in such cases, when you are just like somebody and want to trust him, it matures slowly. Such trust must be earned by one’s actions, one’s devotion for a certain time and sometimes by sacrifices. Reasonable trust is the kind of trust you must bring up in yourself to have healthy relationship.

RELATIONSHIPS HOTLINE: Friendship


Problems of Internet Friends
Written by Lisa Streseva, 10c

  I think every person has friends. Maybe only one, or maybe more than ten, but all people have friends. But there are people, who are very shy so they have problems with meeting new people. I'm a person like this, so I hardly meet new people. But I have many Internet friends and I want to tell about cons and pros heaving Internet friends.

Let's start with pros. As for me, to make friends on the Internet is much easier for people like me, who are very shy. You don’t know what a person looks like, so you won't have any stereotypes about nationality, skin color, or something like this. You don’t have to even meet in real life this person, so there won't be eye contact or anything embarrassing like this. Also you can find friends according to your interests and hobbies so you will have themes for speaking. The last, but not that least, you can meet people all over the world.

RELATIONSHIPS HOTLINE: Friendship


What Is The Difference Between Friendship In 1st And 10th Forms?
Written by Alina Kovalenko,10c

  Each person once had a REAL friendship in life, which was not connected with material prosperity, popularity, for mercenary purposes... Everyone probably has thought about what real friendship is and how to distinguish it from “deceitful”? So, let's start with what friendship is for each of us? Friendship is a close relationship based on mutual trust, affection, common interests.

Over the years, our emotions /life outlook/interests/priorities have been changing. Throughout the school life we have been friends with different people. So… how does our friendship change in 1st grade and in 10th? This question seems complicated to me, because each person has had their own experience in relationships. Today I will talk about my experience and my thoughts. First of all, friendship is not an easy thing for me, because only a true friend can hold you back, listen to, understand, laugh at your jokes, and know all your secrets and amorousness ...

RELATIONSHIPS HOTLINE: Friendship


How to Keep Friendship Going?
Written by Anastasia Kuprievich, 10c

  Like any other relationship, friendship takes time and effort. If it seems to you that your relationship with a friend has cooled or you want to strengthen friendships, there are ways to help you with this. If you regularly communicate and support your friends, you can overcome the conflicts that may arise, as well as maintain friendly relations for many years.

Friendship is, first of all, the similarity of views and thoughts, feelings and needs of two people. A friend must be sincere in his feelings, there is no place for hypocrisy. Between friends there is no envy and rivalry. Only a true friend will rejoice for another as well as for himself. Often, some people make the mistake of calling their friends and acquaintances friends. As you know, many friends do not exist. In a difficult situation, only real friends will help you.